This Sunday, I invite you to ponder this question with me: What are you working towards? Recently, while powering through the seventh season of the TV series Dexter, I found myself asking: What am I doing? The activity, which had occupied multiple evenings that week, didn't contribute to what I want to achieve personally. While … Continue reading Sunday Reflection: What Are You Working Towards?
Growth Mindset
The Art of Seeing Things Differently.
Every time a loud motorcycle, scooter, or fat bike speeds past me too closely, I feel annoyed, convinced the drivers enjoy startling people. But just a few days ago, a man drove by on a scooter, whooping as he passed. Once again I was startled. Initially, I felt my usual irritation. Yet, I caught myself … Continue reading The Art of Seeing Things Differently.
Sunday Reflection: Who Are You Grateful For?
Today I invite you to pause and think of someone in your life for whom you feel deeply grateful. This might be a close friend or a dear family member. If several people come to mind, focus on just one. What is it about this person that makes you grateful for their presence? Is it … Continue reading Sunday Reflection: Who Are You Grateful For?
Regaining a Sense of Control
Hi you! Have you ever felt like life is running on autopilot, with your days filled with tasks you have to do rather than things you want to do? If that resonates, you're not alone. This Thursday, I’m sharing a quick exercise that helped me feel more in control and intentional with my time. In … Continue reading Regaining a Sense of Control
Sunday Reflection: Who Can Help You Forward?
In an earlier article this week, I wrote about asking for help, highlighting its importance when you're stuck and how it can improve your relationships. Today, I encourage you to reflect on this question: Who can help you move forward? Think broadly—whether it's work, studies, or personal challenges. Consider who might have the knowledge or … Continue reading Sunday Reflection: Who Can Help You Forward?
The Sunk-Cost Fallacy: Your Energy Is Not Lost
Last week, I wrote about the Quitting Framework by Steven Bartlett, commenting on both the simplicity of the framework and a thought-provoking statement: "Quitting is for winners." The essence is that strategic, well-considered quitting can improve your life, especially when hardships aren't leading you toward your goals. While writing about the value of strategic quitting, … Continue reading The Sunk-Cost Fallacy: Your Energy Is Not Lost
The Strength in Vulnerability: Why Asking for Help Is Key to Personal Growth
Asking for help can be incredibly challenging. It exposes vulnerability, forcing us to admit we can't solve something on our own—at least not as quickly or easily as we'd like. There's a discomfort in this, especially if you're used to handling things independently. Personally, I have often taken the solo route to solving a problem … Continue reading The Strength in Vulnerability: Why Asking for Help Is Key to Personal Growth
Sunday Reflection: What Is Something That You Are Still Proud of?
This Sunday, let's just take a moment to think of something you achieved in your past, which still provides you with a sense of pride. Just take a moment and think of something—anything—that still makes you glow with pride. Or perhaps, if that is too demanding, just think of something you achieved that you like … Continue reading Sunday Reflection: What Is Something That You Are Still Proud of?
Quitting Is Not For Losers, Quitting Is For Winners.
Sometimes, no matter how much you shift your mindset or push through difficulties, a project just doesn’t get better. Instead of energizing you, it drains you and stifles your growth. Recognizing this is crucial for your resilience and life balance. It’s time to make a bold decision—quit! I first learned about the Quitting Framework of … Continue reading Quitting Is Not For Losers, Quitting Is For Winners.
Reflecting on 100 Days of Blogging.
How It All Started On the third of July this year, I decided it was finally time for something that had been on my mind for a while. I committed to writing and publishing a blog post each day. The reason for this commitment was the influence of books I had read, YouTube creators I … Continue reading Reflecting on 100 Days of Blogging.
Itching for Growth 