After I recently graduated from Computer Science, I began applying for jobs in a somewhat low-key manner. With some side jobs covering my expenses, there was no rush, and I didn't feel pressured. I had a simple plan: always have three job applications in progress at any given time. This approach kept me moving forward. … Continue reading Hope Is Not a Strategy: Why Simple Plans Outshine Wishful Thinking
This morning, I laced up my running shoes and set out for my usual trail. About halfway through, I found myself battling the urge to take a walking break. My legs were fine, I was breathing just fine, I just did not feel motivated. The thought of a brief rest grew increasingly tempting. Instead of … Continue reading Becoming an Unstoppable Force: Empower Your Life with Resilience and Inner Strength
Ever felt like your studies or work consumed all of your conscious thought, much like a thick fog that never lifts? Even when you're surrounded by friends and family, that one pursuit dominates your mind, clouding every conversation and experience. Your mood rises and falls with the success or failure of this single focus, making … Continue reading Simple Tips to Break Free from a One-Dimensional Mindset and Boost Your Creativity
Beginning your week with clarity and purpose can make a huge difference in how productive and focused you feel. By taking a few minutes to reflect on these five key questions, you’ll be better prepared to handle your week with intention and confidence. 1. What are my top three priorities for the week? To start … Continue reading 5 Essential Questions to Start Your Week with Clarity and Purpose
We tend to believe productivity is about constant focus and relentless effort. A minute doing something that does not directly advance you toward your goal is a wasted minute in the land of productivity—or so it may seem after reading too many time management and productivity tips. However, in his book Hyperfocus, Chris Bailey introduces … Continue reading Scheduling Time for Scatterfocus: Unlocking Your Creative Potential
You want to take a bold step, start a creative project, or pursue a personal dream, but something holds you back. There is an internal whisper in the background, convincing us we're not good enough, smart enough, or capable of achieving something great. These beliefs can dominate our thoughts, and stop any project or dream … Continue reading The 7 Most Common Limiting Beliefs – And How To Counter Them
It’s a question that can provoke deep reflection, especially when confronted with events that feel beyond our influence. While our circumstances, like where we are born or sudden life changes, might seem to dictate our path, focusing solely on these aspects can lead to a sense of helplessness. Instead, there is power in shifting our … Continue reading How Much Control Do We Truly Have Over Our Lives?
Continuing our exploration of guiding principles for living a good life, we turn to the insightful work of Carol Dweck. Dweck presents a transformative approach focused on personal development through a growth mindset. At the core of Dweck’s philosophy is the idea that talents and abilities can be developed through effort and learning. In this … Continue reading Guiding Principles for a Good Life: Developing a Growth Mindset
The beginning of any project / hobby is much harder than it will be after because: You lack the skills necessary. You lack the gear necessary. But, starting a creative hobby or project is definitely worth the initial effort! Allow yourself to discover the joy of creation. Engaging in creative activities can be deeply fulfilling, … Continue reading Why Starting a New Hobby is Hard but Worth It: Tips for Beginners
One of the most vivid memories of social humiliation dates back 13 years—half my life ago. In a high school history class, the teacher asked us what we thought was the meaning of life. I thought I had a brilliant answer, but when I started speaking, the words got tangled. The pressure of 28 pairs … Continue reading The Power of Letting Go: Overcoming Past Embarassment
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